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Battleground Panties: Hark The Silent War
Lingerie.... For Pets?
If you were feeling weird about being a man who wears lingerie, this is going to make you feel a whole lot better..... Click to read more...
The Power of Panties Revealed
What is the power of panties that men are drawn to wearig them? Why does it feel so good to slip into something smooth and satiny, to feel the soft caress of the material firm against your cheeks?
Could it be linked to... The Power of Panties
You naughty boys....
Oh I know, I see you there, looking all innocent, telling me 'Hope, it's all about the feeling I get when I wear panties, the sensation of the material'. Well that's as maybe, but for every man who likes to wear panties simply for the sensation, there's one or two more who do it to break a taboo, to do something naughty...
For you fellows, and those pretending to be good... Naughty Knickers For Men
This one is for the ladies...
Why You Need To Date A Man Who Wears Lingerie
Hope's reasons why ladies need to find themselves some lingerie lovin' men...
ANATOMY OF THE LINGERIE WEARING MAN
This man who wears lingerie. Who is he? Why does he do it? Is he a night dwelling freak of nature? So many questions. So little clarity.
Never fear, Hope answers this question with her knowledge of the men who wear lingerie....
Portrait of a panty man...
Getting caught with mail order brides in lingerie...
Oh great bloggy readers, I submit to you offerings of links of fresh material prepared for you and for many...
FIVE WAYS TO GET CAUGHT IN WOMEN'S LINGERIE
MAIL ORDER BRIDES AND MEN IN LINGERIE
Men In Bikinis
Very nice! Who does not love a man wearing a bikini? A mankini? Do you want to see pictures of men wearing bikinis? Do you want to be a man who wears a bikini? Both desires can be sated at this hub of dreams... Men in Bikinis
The Attraction of Men In Lingerie
Recently I have gotten some great emails, and one question that came up in them was to do with why I find men in lingerie attractive. What is it about these men in panties that keeps me coming back and writing more about them, perhaps one could say, long after the point has perhaps been made? It is a goodly question, and I shall attempt to answer it here. I can only speak for myself of course, but I am sure there are others who feel the same way, that tends to be the way the human animal works.
The Attraction of Men In Lingerie
Skirts And Dresses Men Can Wear In Public
Good news chaps! There are ways that you can wear skirts and dresses in public... you just need to follow these tips...
Skirts and Dresses For Men
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You know you've been writing about men wearing women's things too long when....
You look at this picture and it takes you at least a minute or two to realize what's wrong with it... (Tiny print on the 'Mens Accessories' sign notwithstanding.)
The Trinity of Mesh Lingerie - Panties, Bras and Bodysuits
Mesh lingerie is one of my favorite kinds of lingerie, probably because its a little bit naughty, but yet can be combined effortlessly with other fabrics to create an effect that is sexy, but not too raunchy. Mesh, is of course, a see through material, which means that it is perfect for highlighting aspects of one's anatomy, or for hinting at them in a saucy visual tease.
Mesh Lingerie...
Is Lingerie A Gateway Garment?
Many women whose husbands or boyfriends reveal that they like to wear lingerie have a deep fear, an unspoken fear, a fear that torments them whilst they watch romantic comedies and weep slightly as the oh so masculine heroes of stage and screen perform in suitably male attire (unless its one of those European heritage films, in which case its likely that the men are wearing more lace and make up than the women, but that's a topic for another day.)
I answer this pressing question...
The Six Lingerie Commandments
We always let religions get away with having all the fun making up rules by which we should live our lives. If we let our lingerie guide us, war would be much less likely, but smooth silky fun levels would be guaranteed to increase 800% (according to the analysts I keep chained in my basement for just such occasions.)
Read the Lingerie Commandments...
How To Wear Vintage Nylons
Smoking hot Mary Jane does a fine job of showing boys and girls how to put on a pair of vintage nylons....
Authentic Vintage Nylons
Let's go old school with these sensual pieces of our lingerie history and heritage. If you're a fan of hosiery and you don't own any vintage nylons yet, you don't know what you're missing. The thrill of history combined with the sensuality of some of the earliest nylon ever produced...
Authentic Vintage Nylons
IMPORTANT NEWS ALERT
I have a new blag! It's all about fashion, and if you like these articles, you should read it, because I continue to yammer on about various styles of clothing, some of which might appeal to you... you might even learn something. Because I'm full of facts. True facts.
Fashion or Die
Nylon Panties For Men
Though nylon might originally have been developed by American scientists as a material with which to invisibly lasso the moon and really freak out the Russians during the Cold War, it has now found a much more sensual and perhaps even practical purpose in nylon panties.
Nylon Panties!
Men In Lingerie: Is It Wrong For Me To Wear Panties?
Now there's a title that's almost so stupid I wouldn't have written on it if it weren't for the fact that it's sometimes the apparently stupid, simple things in life that trip us up. I also know that many men who want to wear lingerie feel overwhelming senses of guilt about it, even to the point where their self esteem is affected.
Is it wrong?
The Power of Pantyhose For Men
Many men are attracted to women's pantyhose, an item of women's lingerie not typically known by women for its glamor, (at least in my associations anyway, which are to do with school uniforms, dinner ladies, and okay, maybe the occasional pretty secretary). The grass is always greener on the other side though isn't it? Especially when the other side is permitted to express themselves with sheer and svelte fabrics, pretty colors, and displays of general emotion with are forbidden for a man.
More about the pantyhose...
Love and the Man in Lingerie
This is a five part series on love and relationships, written for men who like to wear lingerie, but also like to have relationships with women. Links to all five parts are laid out below, though really you'll probably want to start at the beginning and go on until you reach the end. That's usually the way we do things around here.
The Nature of Love
Stop Wearing Lingerie?
She Says Yes To Lingerie
What Are Your Intentions?
She's Lost Respect For Me In Lingerie
Grandma's Lingerie Hints For Married Men
My grandma weighs in with her own perspective on men wearing lingerie, and some useful tips for men who are married and like to wear it...
Ask Gran...
Gorgeous Granny Panties For Guys
We're bringing the old classic back - the granny panty is a shameful lingerie beast no more! I discuss the issues connected with the granny panty, and offer some tips on finding the perfect granny panty for you.
Granny Panties!
More from our favorite cross dressing detective...
Part Four of Silver's Detective Agency is out...
(Yes, Jack has his own little site now. I thought it a better idea to split the story off than let it take over the blog entirely. The panties need room to breathe, you know.)
Silver's Detective Agency - Part Three
Silver's Detective Agency
By Hope Alexander
Part One
Part Two
Part Three - In which the panty thief is encountered, and a trap is set...
The first stop on the panty thief's trail was at Boinkwell's Fine Art Gallery, a gauche institution selling the type of pieces that might have been created by a small child on acid. It was a cloudy day outside, but as I entered the galley I donned a pair of sunglasses to shield my eyes from the bright neons and otherwise clashing hues that assailed them from all angles.
I suppose I appeared rather drab in that light place, a fedora propped at a rakish angle atop my head, and classic long line trench coat svelte against my body, hiding the bulk of it from the prying eyes of the world, revealing only a pair of highly polished high heeled patent leather boots which click clacked pleasingly on the gallery's parquet floors.
I had barely stepped in the door when, like a harpy, Miss Boinkwell was on me in an instant. She seemed to simply melt out of one of the installations, a lithe vibrant creature suddenly embracing me and kissing my cheeks effusively.
“Jack! Darling! How are you!” she chirped.
“Hello Sarah dear,” I replied, taking her hands in mine and stepping back to admire her. She was wearing a lovely green indie dress, cinched around the waist and flowing out in soft pleats to her knees, a matching pair of pumps adorned her feet, the entire outfit making her look absolutely stunning. A string of beads hung around her neck, further heightening the bohemian feel. How she could dress herself so well and yet sell the rubbish that hung on every wall of that gallery I do not pretend to know.
“What brings you here, Jack?” she gave me a bright smile as I admired her.
“Art, dear. I am looking for a new piece for the bedroom,” I lied.
Her smile brightened further, and dropping one of my hands, she used the other to begin leading me around the cacophony of garishness that was her gallery.
You might be wondering why I didn't just slap the ol' cuffs on here there and then and call it a day. Well you see friends, there's this little thing called proof, and I lacked it. As much as I was aware of her heinous crimes against lingerie, I had to catch her in the act.
“You know, it's awfully hard to tell what these pieces would look in my home.” I said, trying not to regurgitate lunch as I pretended to admire what appeared to be a mud spattered canvas covered with orange stripes.
“Perhaps you could bring a few pieces over to my place some time and I could see which ones work best with my décor?” I suggested, fixing her with a winning crimson lipped smile.
She practically melted there on the gallery floor. Little sissy Sarah had quite the crush on me, so it seemed.
“Of course,” she twittered.
“Lovely, you're a darling,” I drawled, winking.
She giggled and fidgeted with the hem of her skirt with her free hand. “I could come over tonight?” she suggested.
“Perfect.” I murmured, drawing her close and kissing her cheek.
The die was cast.
Detective Jack Silver's Sexy Soirée Ensemble
Wondering what our favorite cross dressing detective Jack Silver was wearing the night his panties were stolen?
Check out his sexy ensemble here...
Silver's Detective Agency - Part Two
Silver's Detective Agency
By Hope Alexander
Part Two - In which we discover the nature of the panty thief....
Part One
Of course, like most of the criminally minded, this panty thief would never admit that she was one. No, she claimed to be nothing but an art dealer on the fashionable north side. It was bollocks of course, in my line of work, you learn to spot people who are hiding things, and the moment I laid eyes on Miss Sarah Boinkwell, I knew she had more than a few skeletons hiding in her pretty little closet.
She looked out of the screen at me, her full pink mouth set in a little pout, her eyelashes caught mid flutter around sweet green eyes, red waves of hair setting her creamy skin off to perfection. Oh she was a pretty one alright, if it wasn't for the fact I knew her skirts hid seven and a half inches of trouble, I'd be thoroughly tempted myself. Fortunately for sissy Sarah, I'm strictly a ladies man. Unfortunately for her I'm tough on crime, real tough.
Does it sound like I had a personal bone to pick with this lady? Well, let's just say that even the best of us are sometimes caught out. You see, Sarah Boinkwell and I weren't actually strangers when I agreed to take this case. I had met her for the first time at a little soiree I was holding at my apartment, she came as the date of a charming gentleman friend of mine, and was rather the little social butterfly as I recall, flitting about the place making sparkling conversation and entertaining the other guests thoroughly.
It was a lovely evening. I was dressed in a black sequined gown that clung from head to toe, long slits up the sides revealing my shapely sheer black stockinged legs and just a hint of garter. Even in my role as host, I like to think that I would have been more shrewd than to allow myself to be taken advantage of by a thief in my own domain, but I must confess that I was thrown off my game by another little lady that evening, Jane Domehard, a divorcee and satisfied client. A lot of women are put off by an unrepentant male crossdresser, but Jane was well in the thoes of post divorce exploration and she wanted to try everything, including me. A gentleman does his best never to refuse a lady, and it seemed that night her hands never left me for an instant. As a result my mind was a little hazy when pretty sissy Sarah minced over to me, clutched at my arm and asked where the ladies room was I directed her to my en suite, thinking nothing of it at the time.
It wasn't until the next day when Jane was cooking us eggs for breakfast that I realized my panty drawer had been well and truly pillaged. Sissy Sarah had an eye for quality, I'll give her that, I still haven't been able to replace some of the panties she stole that fateful evening. Since then Sarah had pulled off several similar heists, targeting the Governor's wife amongst other high profile citizens, and attracting the attention of the police. Oh yes, she had been a very, very bad girl indeed, and bringing her to justice would be an exquisite pleasure.
Hope's Lingerie Favorites: Bras For Big Breasts
When you're a well endowed lady, the world is like a giant garden full of flowers and butterflies and dewy eyed baby deer nuzzling up to you at the slightest opportunity. However, when you have big breasts, you have to squeeze them into a bra at some point.
But what bra?
Pretty Cheeky Panties From Victoria's Secret
Victoria's Secret are legends in lingerie, and for good reason. Yes, they don't skimp when it comes to getting unbelievably hot models who look like they were bio-engineered in a South American genetics lab, but more importantly they make great innovative lingerie at a reasonable price.
Look at the pretty panties...
Men Caught In Lingerie
Getting caught out in lingerie can be a problem for men who like to wear it out of the house, or even those who are in relationships where their lingerie wearing is an issue. It's one thing to flaunt your lingerie when you're in a sharing mood, its completely different to be caught out at an inopportune moment. Then again, sometimes its fun to raise eyebrows and cause whispers. As with everything else in life, sharing your lingerie with the world is about timing...
Caught in lingerie...
Garters For Guys From Frederick's Of Hollywood
Lingerie is about detail, it's about tiny bows and exquisite lace, it's about emphasing style and form. Often overlooked in the lingerie arsenal is the garter...
More on garters...
Obama Vs McCain In Lingerie
Oh yeah, it's election year baby... let's check out the REAL issues...
McCain vs Obama in Lingerie
Silver's Detective Agency - Part One
Warning, this story contains themes of a lacy nature...
Silver's Detective Agency
By Hope Alexander
Of all the agencies, in all the world, she had to walk into mine. Jeans hanging off her hips, faded baggy t-shirt hiding any hint of a curve, plastic crocs clumping on the floor. Her mascara had been hastily applied and was running down her cheeks, mixed with her tears. Her double chin quivered slightly with her grief, her milky blue eyes looked out at me hopelessly through stringy blonde hair tainted with patches of mousy brown regrowth. She was a mess.
“Hello, Beautiful,” I smiled. Her look of surprise at the compliment was practically hilarious as I unfolded myself from my deep office chair and gestured for her to take a seat on the pink couch reserved for clients. She plopped down in the middle of it, wringing her hands and inspecting the polished wood floor.
“How can I help you?” I asked, perching my pinstripe suit clad posterior on the arm and smiling at her.
“He's cheating on me,” she said numbly.
“What can I do?” I asked, examining one of my well manicured fingers, already knowing the answer.
“I want proof. I want to take him for all he's got. I want him to hurt.” A glint of purpose was in her eyes as she looked up at me, ferocious desire to hurt the man who'd hurt her so terribly, the passion briefly recalling what must have been her beauty before the grind of child bearing and marriage sapped her of her passion for life.
But we are getting ahead of ourselves here. Allow me to introduce myself. I'm Jack Silver, private detective. It's a lot less glamorous than it sounds of course, most of my clientel are women and men just like the one currently occupying my couch. Nobody walks through that door for a good reason. This is a business built on deceit – but it's also an avenue to justice, which is why I enjoy my work so very very much.
I reached down and squeezed her pudgy shoulder reassuringly. “Don't you worry darling, we'll get the bastard,” I assured her, earning myself a watery smile. I picked up a pad and paper from the coffee table in front of us, my skirt hiking smoothly as I sat back down and crossed my slim stocking clad legs, enjoying the soft whisper of nylon and the way my slim calves formed a well heeled triangle, one black stiletto dangling from my elevated toe.
A glance over at the full length mirror saw me seated there looking as impeccable as ever, dark hair curling to my shoulders, my eyes tastefully though dramatically highlighted with earth tone eyeshadow to bring out the deep brown of my eyes and topped off with long lash mascara – a guy's best friend.
My newest client introduced herself as Angela, a 37 year old housewife from the 'burbs. He was cheating with his secretary. It was a story made all the more tragic by its sheer ordinariness.
“I'm going to sue him for everything. He'll never see the kids again.” She spat venom, anger taking over from grief.
“Of course darling. Now you go home and take a nice long bath and leave this to me.”
She left, an angry little lamb buoyed with the thought of revenge. I smiled as she stomped out the door. It was all too easy, another stake out, another set of high definition saucy pictures, another five figure settlement.
Pressing the intercom button, I called for my secretary. She came tottering in all blonde curls and giggles as usual. I pay the girl far too much, but she's cute, and that's good for morale.
“Erica, get me a drink would you?”
“Of course, Mr Silver,” she bobbed in a curtsy that held a hint of sarcasm. Don't ask me how she manages to move sarcastically, just take my word for it. If you ever meet her, you'll know what I mean.
I watched her prepare the drink through slightly narrowed eyes. She's been my secretary for three years now, and I swear she never tires of finding new ways to playfully irk her boss.
“Thank you dear, do you have those files I requested from John at the station?” I asked as she handed me my usual, a pink lady.
“Uhhmmm,” her blue eyes practically rolled up inside her head as she thought about the question.
“Yes!” she finally revealed with a bright smile.
“Send them on to me, please.” I stood and walked back to my desk, drink still in hand, dwarfing her petite figure with my 6'3 frame elevated even higher by the 2.5'' heels. She calls me 'the Giantess' behind my back, thinks I don't know about it. Really I need to do something about that girl.
For the moment however, I had bigger fish to fry. The files from John at the station were on a case highly relevant to my interests. Sitting down behind my desk, I swung my long legs up onto the corner of the table and waited, sipping at the drink.
True to form, the 'new email' icon soon flashed on screen, and a few well placed clicks later, I was looking at the digitsed representation of my latest quarry – the inimitable panty thief.
Interview With A Sissy
Anyone who's been following along with the 'Men In Lingerie' articles will have by now spotted a special group of commenters, males who use female names, who prance and dance about the place looking pretty as can be in frills and lipstick, confusing and beffudling the rest of the world with their antics. As flamboyant as they are, little is really known about this group of men who wear lingerie - the sissy set. In a bid to change this, I interviwed Tonya St. Clair, a self confessed sissy and a great guy.
Tonya, what does being a 'sissy' mean to you?
Some men who wear women's clothes want to go for the full effect and the ability to pass as women. I was at that point when I was in my early twenties and I understand that desire. It's about wanting to be as close to a real woman as possible.
Other men who wear women's clothes seem to want to go for the "over the top" look. i.e. Drag Queens. These seem to be all about the "look at me" part of being a woman.
Sissies in my opinion are like drag queens in that we are interested exaggerating an aspect of being a female. For drag queens it seems to be all about exaggerating the glamorous. For sissies it's about exaggerating the soft and frilly parts of being a woman.
To me it's an expression of the submissive side of my personality mixed in with my love of cross dressing. It's about reveling in all things frilly and soft and sweet smelling. It's about the joy of throwing off the work-a-day world and slipping in to my own fantasy world of pink satin and ruffles.
Now obviously some of that is a cross over from cross dressing, but I think of it like this:
I've made some generalizations here but I think you get the idea.
Does being a sissy mean that you are gay or bisexual?
I don't think that being a sissy has anything to do with being straight or gay. It's really about what I find emotionally satisfying. Not to say that being a sissy isn't about sex, but it's different than what bits and parts I'm interested in. If I'm feeling emotionally satisfied only then do I feel able to to be sexually satisfied. And that is true no matter who is sharing my bed.
If you're wondering I classify myself as omnisexual. Currently I'm 90% hetero and 10% homo, but those numbers have flexed (and certainly will flex again) over the years. I mention that only as statistical data. :-)
Does being a sissy mean that you are submissive?
Yes, I would certainly label myself a submissive. As I referenced above, being a sissy is where my submissive side and my cross dressing overlap.
Once again I think there are different flavors of submissive just as there are different flavors of cross dressers. For me it's about being overseen/controlled by a matriarchal figure; a mother, an aunt, etc.
Do you think sissys make good husbands and boyfriends?
I guess that really depends on the chemistry of the relationship as a whole. I know that for me and my wife it works. If there is some sort of scale between submissive and dominance then I would guess that my wife is only as far on to the dom side as I am on to the sub side. But for us that stays compartmentalized to the bedroom.
Just like cross dressing in general, the depth to which one can explore one's sissy-ness really varies with their partner and respecting their boundaries.
What separates a sissy from just a guy who wears lingerie sometimes because he likes it?
Again, I discussed the answer somewhat in my first answer. Being a sissy is not just about wearing lingerie because it's fun; it's about the exaggeration of the most feminine aspects of being a woman.
Hope Presents: An Introduction To Men In Dresses
This is more of a warning shot over the bow of things to come as it were, rather than an in depth article of revelation and insight, but for those of you who have no interest in the subject matter, or who know it all already, there is a picture of a goat wearing a wedding veil... don't ever let it be said that I don't take care of my readers.
Go hence unto the article!
Any Volunteers?
Hi all. Hope here again, looking to you, the great reading audience of this blog for a little assistance, if you will. It has come to my attention over the months that a lot of the men who read this blog identify as 'sissies'. Now I don't know all that much about the sissy set, and I think that needs to change. I also think that the world at large is woefully underinformed on this subject as well, so I'd like the chance to chat with and interview for the purposes of an article some men who identify as sissies. It can be confidential if you like, and we will be keeping it G Rated, so no overt sexual stuff or raunchy pics ;)
Any willing victims can get in touch via the address on the side bar...
Sissy Michelle Prances In Lingerie
This is something of an instructional video that I happened to stumble across on YouTube. Observe as the self proclaimed 'Sissy Michelle' struts his/her stuff in front of the camera. Now men, note the potentially fatal 'flaw' in this video.
(Hint: It is the same mistake that our hero made in the story 'Corporate Lace'.)
Are Men Who Wear Lingerie Weak Sissyboys?
I explore the notion that wearing lingerie means that a man is a weak, effeminate sissy. (If you've read the story, there's a wee bit of a tie in there.)
Of course, that was fiction, in reality are men who wear lingerie weak sissyboys?
Behold!
The full version of 'Corporate Lace' is now available for download. I tested everything and it seems to be working okay, so enjoy!
Thank You!
A very big thank you to all those of you who have voted on the poll, and especially to those who took time out to email me your reactions to 'Corporate Lace'. I'm still more than open for feedback and suggestions, but the response so far has already shown that there is definitely a desire for more such fiction.
For those of you who don't know, I am a writer and author by trade, and have penned quite a few erotic stories for various publications under various pseudonyms. I am starting a line of erotic fiction just for men who wear lingerie, but instead of going the traditional publishing route, which is fairly long and arduous, not to mention costly for the reader, I've decided to provide several short stories as single downloads in .pdf format as a starting point.
You'll be able to download them free of charge, though I will provide a link for donations, which are always appreciated. I am a big fan of the creative commons approach to publishing, and the philosophy of leaving it to the audience to decide what a story is worth, if anything at all.
The full length version of 'Corporate Lace' will be available for download later this coming week. I hope you enjoy it, and once again, welcome your feedback. If there are certain themes you'd like to see explored in these stories, feel free to let me know. If I get enough requests for a particular theme, or if it strikes a chord, you may very well see it explored in an upcoming story!
Hope Presents: Hot, Sexy Men In Lingerie Fiction
Welcome back faithful readers, and eager newcomers, I have a bit of a treat for you all today. It comes in the form of the first part of a series of erotic stories featuring men who wear lingerie and the women who love them.
How many of you sneak off to work wearing a little lingerie, hoping it won't be noticed, or perhaps, hoping that it might be? That's what happens in this, a story of...
Corporate Lace
By Hope Alexander
Eric was running late again. The alarm clock had singularly failed to rouse him from sleep and when he finally stumbled out of his bed, he barely had time to gel his hair into submission, slip on the last ironed shirt from his closet, douse himself liberally in deodorant and slip a pair of his favorite nylon panties on.
Tight, but not too tight, he sighed as he snuggled them into place, relaxing a little as he always did when he felt the soft, smooth material caressing his nether regions. A matching bra quickly followed, then a shirt. He couldn't help but glance at himself in the mirror, admiring the way the thin nylon clung around his cheeks, and under his still open shirt, the bows and lace of the bra peeked out, the lace gently rubbing across his nipples. It was almost enough to distract him from going to work entirely, but the ticking clock made him regretfully button up his shirt, and hunt around for a pair of socks. Ordinarily he would have searched out some nice stockings, but today there was just no time.
Tugging on his work pants, and shoving a corner of toast into his mouth, he rushed out the door, stabbing his feet into his shoes on the way.
Today was a big day. Not only was the new manager arriving today, but his boss had kindly scheduled his presentation today as well. He frowned at his appearance in the rear view mirror as he waited in traffic, hoping that the 5 O'clock shadow around his jaw line would be interpreted as rakish and not slobbish. Fortunately for him, his deep blue eyes and strong features generally contrived to make him look good no matter what.
Traffic was, of course, slow, and he ground towards his office with the rest of the panicked 8.57 am rush, planning out the details of the presentation in his mind and hoping that the new manager was better than the last one.
Finally he pulled into his parking spot, grabbing his briefcase and heading up to the office. Glancing at his watch he despaired a little. 9.04. Late again. Cursing under his breath, he rushed out of the car park into the lobby. Lady Luck must have been smiling on him, the elevator was waiting at the bottom and he barreled into it, slamming the 'door close' button frenetically.
The door began to slide closed and he breathed a sigh of relief, until the toe of a pretty green stiletto crammed itself into the gap between the door and the frame and a delicate manicured hand forced the door back open.
A woman entered the elevator, fixing him with a withering look. “Chivalry is dead, is it?” She said in an accusatory tone.
“So sorry.” Eric apologized. “I really didn't see you there, I'm running late.” He explained.
She looked him up and down, seeming to find him inherently deficient. “I see. Maybe you should pay more attention.” She said, ending the conversation by turning her back on him and pressing the button for the 5th floor.
Eric spent the rest of the ride observing the shrew before him. She was tall for a woman, boasting a pleasantly curved figure and what would have been lovely dark curling hair were it not scraped back severely. If she were less aggressive and angry with him she would have been a good candidate for a date.
She got off at the 5th floor, her heels clipping efficiently over the floor. Eric slipped by her as she stopped at reception, heading for his cubicle. He could see through the fake palm fronds and blinds that tastefully adorned the conference room everyone was already assembled for the meeting. Groaning he grabbed the disk containing his presentation and headed towards his destiny.
To his immense relief everyone was still slurping coffee and bolting down the special chocolate muffins ordered for the big event when he arrived.
“Erwic.” His best office friend, Richard, a fellow with a Elmer Fudd voice and rotund belly greeted him. “Just in time. They're about to bring the new manager in. I hear she's a lady.”
Eric's stomach sank even before the door to the conference room opened again and their CEO ushered in the new manager, the woman with the pretty green shoes. He slumped down in his chair, trying to hide behind Richard and avoiding her gaze. Perhaps she wouldn't recognize him.
No such luck of course. The CEO waffled, and the new manager, a Miss Germaine Hallswell smiled brilliantly, and before Eric knew what was happening she was glancing down at the schedule.
“First order of business. Mr Dawkin's presentation.”
Eric stood up, tossing the disk for his presentation for Richard to load into the laptop, and walked to the front of the room.
“Welcome, Miss Hallswell.” He said with a smile, acknowledging her. She nodded back, the smile still on her face, but the look in her eyes less than friendly. The stakes on this presentation had just gotten a great deal higher.
He felt her eyes boring into him as he began speaking. Fortunately he knew the material inside and out and was able to confidently deliver the presentation without a hitch. Unnervingly her eyes never left him, they seemed to drift over his body slowly then return to his eyes.
His presentation over, his coworkers filed out to begin the real business of the day, checking their emails and breaking the office solitaire record. He began to follow suit, but was stopped by Germaine's hand on his arm.
“A minute of your time, Mr Dawkins.” She said.
“Sure.” Eric agreed.
She waited until the stragglers had collected themselves and left, then fixed him with a strange look.
“That was a good presentation.” She said.
“Thank you. I hope it was useful.” Eric said guardedly.
She smiled and walked around behind him, frowning in confusion, Eric followed her with his eyes until he could no more, then stifled a gasp as she took hold of the tag on his panties which was sticking out the top of his pants and tugged firmly.
“Interesting choice of attire, Mr Dawkins.” She said, a gleam of mischief in her eyes as she walked back around to face him.
He couldn't believe it. He had been wearing lingerie to the office for years, and never so much as a comment had resulted. This woman had walked in off the street and had already discovered his secret. She leaned back against the desk, smiling playfully and it was with relief that he realized this seemed not to be an automatic strike against him
“So are you a girly man then, Mr Dawkins?” She asked bluntly.
He frowned at her. “No. I am not.” He said, drawing himself up to his full height. He had at least a foot on her, and he was willing to bet that he weighed two of her. It was one thing to be lectured for forgetting to hold an elevator, but slurs on his masculinity were another matter all together.
She smirked. “A man wearing panties...” She let her voice trail off.
Eric's hands were on his hips now as the frown became a glower. “I assure you, Miss Hallswell, I am entirely male and entirely heterosexual.” He said, his voice a low growl. He moved a little closer to her, letting her feel his presence, strong and large.
It didn't bother her in the slightest. “Hm. I don't know. Perhaps I should make a note on your employee file.” She said, her tone light. Eric got the strong feeling that he was being messed with. The vixen was toying with him.
Now that she had shed her jacket, she was wearing what could be described as a corporate dress, severe and black, cut low enough to give those taller than her more than a hint of cleavage, not so low as to be mistaken for one of the naughty 'interns' upper management sometimes employed. Her eyes were a charming light caramel brown shade that matched the golden brown curls that were already working their way free of her chignon.
He placed a large hand on the table next to her, looming over her, his voice softer now.
“I would be more than happy to give you a demonstration, Miss Hallswell.”
There was a faint blush on her cheeks as she slid away from him and began picking at her dress, clearly flustered. Eric stood back up, arms folded across his chest, a broad smile on his face.
“You may go now. Mr Dawkins. I am sure you have much work to do.” She said, not looking at him.
“Oh, yes Ma'am.” Eric chuckled, picking up his disk and flashing her a smile as he turned to leave.
He may have won the battle, but the look she gave him under her eyelashes as he stepped out of the conference room was enough to guarantee that the war was not yet over, not by a longshot...
Okay, time for feedback. Did you like? Did you not like? Want more? Let me know....
The Great Celebrity Panty Heist
After years of being a law abiding citizen, my lust for lingerie has finally overcome the conditioning which society imposed on me from a tender age. Thus I plan to embark upon a life of crime and steal high profile lingerie for fun and profit....
The Heist Begins!
What's Your Secret Lingerie Identity?
Our lingerie is like our alter ego. Hidden away under our clothes, adorning our 'inner selves', it hides secretly from the eyes of the world. You could say that is not until the outer layers of our image shell are peeled away and panties, bras, bustiers, stockings, garters, corsets and camisoles are revealed that we can truly see what somebody is like. This would be something of an overstatement, but nevertheless a fun premise to base yet another personality test on, so strip down and let's discover what your lingerie reveals about your secret character!
Take The Test
Masculine Lingerie For Men
Some men in lingerie don't want to be feminine, they just like the sensation of the smooth fabrics, and perhaps even resent the societal inequality which dictates that delicate fabrics are solely for women. Fortunately for men who prefer not to wear boxers or briefs, but don't want to put a pair of women's panties on, there are other options
Sexy, sexy options...
Hope's Lingerie Picks: Black Is The New Black!
I explain at length why I like black lingerie...
Black is where it's at...
Do You Have An Addiction To Lingerie?
As much as I love lingerie, even I have to admit that lingerie addiction is nasty. If not kept under control, lingerie can ruin lives. As men in lingerie, you need to make sure that you keep your lingerie obsession to a reasonable level, and I've developed a scientific test to help you do that.
Am I addicted to lingerie?
Labor Weekend Lingerie Madness!
What ho! How about a whole bunch of lingerie related articles to get you through Labor weekend, which will start out awesome then quickly deteriorate into aimless bickering and petty hate and/or drunkeness.
Ever wondered what lingerie I wear? Well here's an insight into my own lingerie wardrobe...
Hope's Lingerie Picks (Sports Edition)
Want to do a test that tells you about lingerie? I bet you do...
Lingerie Test!
How about some writing on very sexy items of lingerie you might not have added to your collection yet?
Lingerie Teddies For Men
OMG Stalk Me!
I joined Twitter recently, a fun new way to share the minutinae of daily life with people who probably don't really give a damn. There's a wee feed on the side of the blog here, but if you'd like to get updates sent to you more directly (so you'll know EXACTLY when I decide I prefer cheddar to parmesan) you can follow me on Twitter, which is precisely as odd as it sounds.
EDIT: Actually you can't follow me on Twitter any more, because some charming fool decided to do just as the title says. Let's keep it sane, chaps.
Hope Interviews A Man In Lingerie!
Okay guys, here's an interview with a great guy, Eugene T.S. Wong, a hosiery advocate for men. Eugene shares his perspective on hosiery, and sheds a lot of light on the subject, not to mention provides some really useful and practical advice for integrating hosiery into your everyday wear.
If you've ever wondered about how other men approach their love of lingerie, then you won't want to miss this.
Read the interview!
Feeling Feminine In Lingerie
Here's what will surely be a hot button issue - men wearing lingerie in order to feel feminine. Many of the articles written on the subject of men in lingerie have focused on the reasons for men wearing lingerie being things like the sensation of smooth fabrics against the skin, or simple enjoyment of the look. For some men, this is undoubtedly the reason why they wear lingerie, but for others, it's not. Many men who wear lingerie do so because they like to feel feminine...
More feminine talk follows...
Sexy Lingerie Outfits For Men
Lingerie is so versatile, and wearing lingerie can be as simple as slipping a pair of panties on under your work slacks, or as involved as dressing from top to toe in a bra, bustier, camisole or corset, sexy panties, suspenders and stockings, or even a body stocking, to name a few of the slinky lingerie delights that one can enjoy. Putting all these items together can be a bit of a challenge however, do it right, and you look and feel stunning, do it wrong and you look and feel like a neglected manikin in a shop window after a sustained looting spree.
Get your sexy lingerie inspirations here!
How To Avoid Visible Panty Lines
One of my readers pointed out that his biggest concern as a man who wears lingerie out and about during the day is the fear of visible panty lines. Visible panty lines are barely acceptable when seen on women, let alone when seen on men, so if you want to wear panties discreetly, its something you'll have to think about.
Learn how to conceal panty lines like a stealth ninja!
The Panty Revolution: Why Men In Lingerie Matter
This one's a little on the 'deep' side, but it answers questions about why I keep writing about men who wear lingerie, and why I think it is an important topic aside from the fun one can have with frilly panties and lacy lingerie and things of that nature...
Men in lingerie, you matter...
Emergency Bras
Your mother always told you to wear fresh panties so that if you were hit by a bus you wouldn't be embarrassed by the soiling as you screamed in agony and paramedics worked to staunch the internal hemorrhaging. In the spirit of that eminently practical advice, I've decided to put together a few suggestions for bras which could be useful in an emergency.
Emergency Bras!
How To Find Women Who Like Men In Lingerie
'Hope, how can I find a woman who likes men who wear lingerie?' I get this question rather a lot, and whilst I can't point any of you to the 'women who like men who wear lingerie store, I can give you a few pointers to help you along the road to finding such a lady...
Find a woman who likes her man in panties...
Distracting you all with big boobs...
Some of you may have noticed that the regular posting schedule has gone to hell in a hand basket recently. Fear not, I haven't forgotten you all, its just that my life exploded into a gigantic nebula of weirdness around the 1st of August. Normal posting is anticipated to begin in a few days, until then, why not browse the other quality writings I've concocted in the past?
A whole lotta breasty hotness awaits you here....
The Panty Pyramid
Not all panties are created equal, and panties, like many other elements of the world, have a natural life cycle. As wearers of panties, it is our responsibility to organize our panties in the most advantageous fashion possible.
View the panty pyramid!
Looking Hot In Plus Size Lingerie
Lingerie is all about being pretty, and sexy, and sensual, and though you might not yet believe it, the good news is that you don't need to be a size 0 model to be pretty in lingerie. It doesn't even matter if you're 300 lbs, you can still look great in tasteful lingerie. The secret is in choosing the sorts of lingerie that will flatter your figure...
Get some hot lingerie tips...
What Ho Chaps!
What ho! It has been a few days since I updated I know, and I do apologize. I shall be getting on to some (hopefully worthwhile) updates in the not too distant future one hopes, but in the meantime... for your entertainment... girls losing their panties...
Sexy Slips For Men
Now here's an item of lingerie we don't talk about every day! The sexy, sleek, slinky slip, the luscious item of lingerie that will have you tingling as you slide it over your head and down your body, feeling it caress you with its cool touch as it settles into place...
See the sexy slips...
Sexy Seamed Stockings For Men
Before we got all newfangled with technology, stockings used to have seams running up the backs of them where the manufacturer joined them together in order that they might not simply fall off the leg. Though it was at first merely a practical consideration, it soon grew to be associated with all things sexy and feminine, and seamed stockings retain their allure today even now that manufacturing techniques have moved on and we can now put a man in stockings on the moon.
Where Are The Pictures Of The Men In Lingerie?
I've been getting some good emails lately, and one I received recently made a few points about this site and the articles on it, one of them being if I'm writing about men who wear lingerie, then why aren't there pictures of men in lingerie here? I thought that was a pretty good question, so I am going to answer it.
There are a few reasons for not having pictures of men in lingerie on the site...
1. There are very few freely available pictures of men in lingerie available on the 'net, and I do not wish to violate the privacy of partners past, present, or future by using personal pictures on this site.
2. Pictures of men in lingerie tend to attract the gay/sissy/transexual/transgender crowd, and whilst I have absolutely nothing against them and think they're plenty awesome, I have designed this place with straight men in mind. There are practically no sites just for straight men who like to wear lingerie, and I think a lot of the problems straight men who wear lingerie have come from being mixed in with the gay/sissy/transexual/transgender groups.
Straight men also tend to enjoy the pictures of women wearing lingerie on multiple levels ;)
3. If you want to see pictures of men in lingerie, there are a gazillion yahoo groups/blogs/sites where you can see user submitted pictures of men wearing panties, bras, stockings, and anything else you care to imagine. Filling the pages of those pictures here would be redundant, and also stands a decent chance of turning off the straight men this site caters to.
So that, in a nutshell, is why you won't find any pantied nut pictures here.
Worst Case Scenario: Outed As A Lingerie Wearer
Perhaps the biggest fear of men who like to wear lingerie isn't the idea that a wife or girlfriend will catch them, it's the idea that they might catch them and tell someone, for instance, everyone they know. Or that perhaps one day they might get careless, and instead of hiding their panty stash behind several inches of lead in a secret vault, they might leave a pair draped carelessly on the door handle, or perhaps forgotten in the corner of the room. There are a million ways for it to happen, but the end result is the same: your lingerie secret is out!
Oh noes!
Lace Bras For Men
Some might disagree with me, but I find there's nothing quite like a lacy bra stretched across a manly chest. Delicate, yet masculine, soft, yet hard, a man and his bra are a delightful contrast. But what bra to wear? There are so many out there, and a great deal of them are, rather unsurprisingly, engineered primarily for the comfort of a woman rather than a man. However if one knows where to look, and what to look for, one can find some hot bras that look just as good on guys as they do girls.
Here are a few bras that I think would look particularly good worn by a man.
Talk To Me!
A few of you may have noticed some changes on the blog, the most prominent one being the removal of all advertising on this site.
Whilst it was nice to have a small income to cover the upkeep of the blog, I decided to take it off because it was in many ways limiting the topics which could be explored here.
Though I'm not interested in turning this into a dirty sex blog (there are plenty of those out there already), there are still some interesting adult topics which can be covered here.
Overall you're a pretty quiet bunch comment wise, which is fine, but if any of you have suggestions for topics you'd like to see written about, have feedback, or wish to contact me for any other reason, feel free to drop me a line at Hope-Alexander@hotmail.com.
Mesh Panties For Men
I like mesh. Yeah, it can look kind of trashy, and it doesn't have the classic overtones of lace, but damnit, I like mesh anyway. I like it for its see through naughtiness, for the way that it can turn an otherwise boring pair of panties into a sexy sensation. I love the way it can be used as a tease, revealing only so much skin, and leaving the rest to the imagination of the beholder, or it can be crass, revealing everything you've got to anyone who cares to look.
See sexy mesh panties, and learn how to make them work for you...
Six Signs He's Wearing Lingerie
Ever wondered if a guy was wearing lingerie? Ever wondered if other people knew if you were wearing lingerie? Here are a few tell tale hints which often reveal that a man is wearing lingerie, useful for people watchers, and men who like to wear their lingerie out and about, but don't want to be conspicuous about it.
The six secret signs...
A Book About Men Who Wear Lingerie?
Mkay, so here's a question for my readers. My stealthy stats tell me that there's a fairly decent number of you who return here fairly often, so to you faithful regulars I say hello, and thank you, and have a question to ask. (Newbies are, of course, always welcome, but the question may be a little harder to answer if you haven't read a few of these articles.)
I quite often get emails commenting on how useful my articles are, primarily for men who are trying to introduce their female partners to the idea that men like to wear lingerie. So the question is this... would any of you be interested in seeing a book written about men who wear lingerie - straight heterosexual men, that is (once again, not to alienate any gay men who like to wear lingerie, its just you chaps seem to have fewer issues with the topic, and if you do, you're probably not coming to a woman for advice anyway), both for general interest, and for introducing women who are not familiar with the idea into the realm of men in panties and bras and whatnot without freaking them out.
I'm going to put up a poll on the side bar and leave it for a month or so, and see what you guys think. I love writing about men who wear lingerie, and if I do put this book together, it would be great to have some contributions from you chaps as well. I think there is much progress that can be made towards gaining greater understanding of men who like to wear women's lingerie, not to mention acceptance, or at the very least, getting the hell over it. They're just panties for chrissakes.
This is entirely in your hands guys... let me know what you want!
- Hope Alexander
Naughty Lingerie For Men
If there's one thing we can all agree on, its that men in lingerie are undeniably naughty. Sometimes it can be hard to find lingerie that adequately expresses the extreme naughtiness that the men who wear it feel, because the majority of lingerie is designed for the practical applications of keeping a woman pert and pretty throughout the day. To give those of you who want to express your wild side through the medium of slinky satin and lovely lace, here are some types of lingerie perfectly suited for a naughty man in lingerie.
Get Naughty Lingerie!
Sexy Sheer Pantyhose For Men
For many men, the epitome of feminine leg wear is a simple pair of sensually sheer pantyhose. This may surprise women, who quite often only wear pantyhose because of uniform requirements, or if it is a particularly cold day and all their other stockings have runs in them. For many men who like to wear lingerie however, sheer pantyhose are a potent symbol of femininity, possibly because men have long observed this type of pantyhose being worn by all kinds of women women ranging from police women to teachers, to runway models.
Share in the joy of sheer pantyhose!
Lingeropedia: Illustrated Guide To Bras (Brassieres)
Do you like bras? Love bras? Want to learn more about bras or find out what certain bra related terms mean? Or perhaps you just want to leer at assorted brassieres. Whatever your bra needs are, you're sure to find something to satisfy them, or perhaps titilate your interest further in the brassiere entry of the lingereopedia, a labor of love written for fellow lovers of lingerie...
Lingeropedia: Bras
Heat Up Your Lingerie Collection
Want to have a sexy lingerie collection but don't know what to buy? Have a drawer full of cotton floral panties? Want to buy some sexy lingerie but find you're struggling to keep within a budget?
Get yourself some sexy lingerie!
Why Does He Wear Panties?
If you've just discovered that your boyfriend or husband wears panties, then you're probably in shock and wondering why on earth he would want to do such a thing. After all, panties are forever riding up at the wrong time, forcing one to create complex schemes by which to extract them from the upper reaches of one's posterior in public places. Many women eschew pretty panties on all but special occasions, opting for comfortable 'granny panties' or in some extreme cases, even y fronts. So to find that one's partner likes to wear frilly panties perhaps even more than you do is strange to say the least.
Why?
Hot Lingerie Trends: Sexy Textured Tights
Mmm oh yeah baby, looking to be hot and hip with the funky flavors of the fashionable set? Realize that last sentence didn't make sense? Don't care? Just like lingerie?
Look here, I promise there is fun stuff here. With Lingerie. Textured Tights. Looking Good. Oh yeah.
It's all HERE.
Five Hot Tips For Buying Sexy Lingerie
Buying lingerie can sometimes be a bit of an ordeal. You're surrounded by rack upon rack of suspiciously similar looking items, and pictures of size 0 women who make other models feel like whales. It's tempting to just rush in, grab a few pairs of panties in either black, white, or even in desperate circumstances, beige (truly an inexplicable choice of lingerie colors)....
Here's how to do it right!
Men, Feel Sexy In Stockings!
Love your stockings, but wish there was a way to feel even sexier when you wear them? Here are some hot hints to help you maximize the sweet stocking sensations.
Men, Feel Sexy In Stockings!
Men Caught Wearing Women's Lingerie
The Scene: You're home alone, in your bedroom, sneaking into your secret stash of women's lingerie. Panties and bras litter the bed, and panty hose is draped from the door handle. You're clad in your favorite pink satin panties, have a matching soft lace bra adorning your chest, and are busy fastening your new stockings to your garter when you hear a gasp of surprise and look up to see your wife or girlfriend standing there....You've been caught wearing women's lingerie.
What do you do? Find out here...
Pretty Pink Bras For Men
Are you a man who looks pretty in pink? As a color Pink represents fun, romance, happiness, tranquility, and a carefree attitude. Though pink is now regarded as a color for girls and women, it was at one time regarded as a masculine color, so why not reclaim the color pink for your lingerie drawer? For some inspiration, check out these pink brassieres which range from the simple to the ornate.
Pretty Pink Bras!
Vintage Panties For Men
The world of Vintage Lingerie is an amazing place. If you're a guy who has seen it all before and is starting to get a little bored with your humdrum modern lingerie with its synthetic satins and silk, and see through mesh panels produced on soulless machines, then looking at vintage lingerie may provide inspiration for new panty choices, or reveal a must have treasure for your collection.
Read on and discover...
Sexy Plus Size Panties For Men
Okay, now I have the 'ugly plus size panties' rant out of my system, let's look a few examples of plus size lingerie that don't make me want to burn a pile of plus size panties simultaneously in Tiannamen Square, Times Square, Red Square, and outside the UN headquarters. (Ugly plus size panties are an International problem affecting people all over the world).
Sexy plus size panties!
Plus Size Panties For Men (And Women) - Rant Edition
Men of all shapes and sizes can enjoy wearing women's lingerie, and this article was going to take a look at some of the sexy plus size panties that are currently on the market. Unfortunately, as I began to delve deeper into researching the topic, and as you will probably have noticed if you're a larger sized man or woman, panties made in larger sizes tend to be very bland and boring affairs, industrial swathes of white (or, for some unknown reason, drab brown) cotton and spandex with all the sex appeal of an adult diaper.
Read on...
Helping Men In Lingerie: Your Comments Count
A great deal of the men who read these articles are quite comfortable with the fact that they like to wear women's lingerie, and a great deal of those men make comments and share tips and secrets, and that's really great. I'm betting that most men who wear lingerie who leave comments here with their experiences with wearing women's lingerie, good or bad, don't really stop to think about what those comments do.
Read on...
How To Have Fun With A Man Wearing Lingerie
This one is for the ladies, especially those ones who have found themselves with a man who wears lingerie, but who didn't really plan things going that way. As I have said in other articles, the first time I found out about a man I was with wearing lingerie I hadn't even thought about it before, it was well and truly completely off my radar...
Learn how to have fun!
Personality Test: What Does The Color Of Your Lingerie Say About You?
Were you wondering what your lingerie color says about you? Well wonder no longer! Through the powers of the Interweb, you can use this article written by a complete stranger to give you insight into your own unique persona!
TAKE THE TEST!
Heroes In Lingerie: Do Stockings And Suspenders Make For Sexy Superheroes?
Superheroes often wear tights, but what if they wore stockings and bras and lacy lingerie? The thought occurred to me late one night, and kept nagging at me for days, a niggling question that would not go away until it had been fully investigated. I tried to occupy myself with other things, but it was to no avail.
The results of my in depth investigation into the effects of lingerie on super heroes can be found here...
Naughty Mesh Panties For Naughty Men
There's nothing naughtier than a pair of mesh panties. Well, there may be, but we can't get into all of that now, can we? It's not the right place or the right time, and to be honest, I'm trying to keep on the straight and narrow these days. So instead of divulging a list of naughtiness, I've compiled a selection of very naughty mesh panties which are sure to delight any man who has a yearning for lingerie.
Gaze upon the sheer beauty of these lingerie creations and be inspired!
Mesh Panties For Men
Men In Lingerie Quiz: What Kind Of Man In Lingerie Are You?
Ever wondered how you stack up against other wearers of lingerie? Are you healthy and normal in your lingerie wearing habits? Take this test and get a very vague and nebulous idea of just how you compare to an arbitrarily decided standard of normality!
Take The Test!
Is It A Sin For Men To Wear Women's Lingerie?
Some men love to wear women's lingerie, but many of them are afraid to do so for a variety of reasons. This article looks at possible religious objections to the wearing of lingerie, and tries an answer the question:
Is it a sin for a man to wear panties?
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